Since I became a mother, I have been more interested in parenting and the impact of parenting styles on children. From my interaction with older mummies, I can say that parenting is no joke! Hence, it shouldn't be taking unseriously. Especially because it goes a long way in moulding and shaping kids to be well rounded grown-ups.
With millennial parents, it is fair to say parents now adopts less authoritative and more of permissive style of parenting. This is why kids of nowadays are more confident, outspoken and intelligent. They are able to hold conversations with their parents and even relate with strangers! I remember the other day I was taking a walk, a young beautiful girl of about 5 years walked up to me, she specifically stated that she was interested in what I was eating, and even told me she thinks it will taste delicious. I was stunned and had no choice than to give her a bite! This incident made me remember the kind of parenting style I evolved through. As kids we couldn’t just open our mouth to speak to our parents; especially fathers talk more of strangers. When you finally say something, you must have thought about it over a dozen times. Even when our parents are wrong and we are right, we dare not gloat about it in front of them. Personally I think it’s a beautiful thing that kids are smarter and more intelligent these days. But, I feel as parents we should be careful of the things we do and say in front of a child. You know, these kids of social media-era they grab and process information faster and better, hence it behoves of us as parents to help them channel their energy and smartness to something productive, fruitful and creative. for example buying them books, this will make them inquisitive and open to conversations. As much as we try to be permissive and less authoritative, I think we still have to keep them out of grown-ups conversation. This is because no matter how smart they are, they cannot be wise enough to understand the dos and don’ts of adult-talks such as; gossip and soft-lies. I mean like kids may not know where to say some things and who to say them to. Lest they end up embarrassing their parents, kids should be permitted to kids-talks and not adult-talks. I feel there should be a part two to this topic. what do you think? Talking about parenting style which do you think is the best? Permissive or authoritarian. How do you think children should be kept busy? Like and Leave a comment in the comment section let us discuss!
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As you almost get to the end of your pregnancy term, Here are things to do to get ready for your little one. 1. PACK YOUR LABOUR BAG: By 36 weeks you should have your hospital bag packed. The bag must contain all what you will need for labour such as; toiletries, baby clothing, maternity clothing, etc. Also, include your personal medical records as well as your antenatal record booklets. 2. WASH YOUR BABY'S CLOTHS AND BED: Because a new born baby skin is still very sensitive and can easily be irritated, it is important to wash all the new clothes and bedding materials. This is to get rid of harsh chemicals used in the production and manufacturing of the clothes. After washing, air dry, fold neatly and store in a cool and clean place. 3. PREPARE THE NURSERY: A nursery might be a little demarcated part of your bedroom, or a separate room close to yours where your baby crib, and nursery closet will be placed. The nursery will be like the baby's personal space, it should airy, neat and well ventilated. 4. COOK AND STOCK UP YOUR PANTRY: You bet when your little one arrival, you will have your hands full, there will be little or no time for cooking or running to the store. It is better you fill up your freezer with your favorite dishes and soups. Stock up on foodstuffs, beverages. This is important because you need good food to revive your energy, you must avoid going out of the house till few weeks after having a baby. 5. KEEP TRACK OF YOUR BABY'S MOVEMENT: Towards the end of your pregnancy term it is important you are observant, monitor your baby movement and connect with your baby frequently. You can do this by just simply rubbing your tummy, listening to rhythmic music, and meditating. You just have to pay attention! When you notice a less movement than usual, call your doctor for a check. 6. LEARN A THING OR TWO ABOUT DELIVERY: It is important to read a bit and know even if it just a little about the birthing process. When you are in labor room, it is not everytime the doctor or medical attendants will be with you. They may be too busy to pay full attention to you. Meanwhile, things can go wrong in a split of seconds. When you are informed about the process, you will be able to call on the medical attendants to act in time. Don't forget, it is your body, it is your baby and it is your responsibility. 7. PREPARE YOUR OWN BODY AND MIND: There is no need to be anxious or afraid of the D-day. Get your body and mind ready by exercising, sleeping and taking lots of water. As you get to the end of your third trimester, exercising becomes essential, it strengthens the muscle, opens the hips and pelvis, as well as giving you a good feeling. Walking, Swimming and Kegel exercise are good examples of exercise in the third trimester. In addition, don't forget to groom yourself down there by waxing and shaving. Finally, brace yourself with positive thinking and expectation of your delivery. |
AuthorI am a proud wife and loving mum to my awesome little boy. I am a goal setter and a goalgetter. I love having happy people around me because i believe "those around you have a great influence on you". My hobbies are reading, trying out recipes, travelling, and meeting people. I would love to know and hear from you. Lets relate!!! Archives
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